This is something that has been going around blog circles for a few years. I was tagged to put in my "letters" by Stephanie over at No One Can Own Your Soul. At the end, I have linked to some other bloggers because I would like to see their spin on it. I hope you will read them and enjoy them as much as I do!
Dear Past Me,You don't need to worry about so many things. You're going to be ok. The older you get, the more opportunities you'll have to meet people like you. Eventually, you'll get pretty good at identifying your "tribe." When you find the right people, they'll be comfortable with you being yourself. You'll actually get weirder but feel less alone. I promise.
Keep looking for people who are more outgoing than you are. They appreciate your ability to listen well and will drag you out of your comfort zone into places and adventures you'd never have had on your own. Look for people, too, that challenge you to be better than you are. It's the best motivation you have to grow -- intellectually, emotionally, spiritually.
Dear Present Me,You need to breathe - especially when it feels like things are out of control. Despite how it appears, the world can wait for 30 minutes in the morning while you do yoga. It can wait for you to re-read e-mails before they're sent. It can wait while you take a bathroom break every once in awhile. Don't believe me? Ask the prairie dog.
You need to keep trying to find the balance between working with the world as it is, and trying to find better options. You're not going to get the balance right, but you're also not going to see things change the ways you would like them to unless you put in the time to try new things. Take deep breaths and keep going. You've got lots of projects you're working on and none of them will be quick or easy. You need to take care of yourself so that you're ready when an opportunity does break through.
Dear Future Me,I know the future is full of its own challenges. Hopefully we prepared for some of those today. Did the West Texas gardening trials help? Is the cooking thing all smoothed out? Hopefully by now you've got several kids and a ranch in the works -- at least that's what I'm praying for (and trying to prepare for) today.
I hope you've kept several of your passions alive. I hope you're still writing and quilting. I hope you've put together a local support network to rival the world-wide girlfriend network you have today. I hope that you haven't had to organize anyone's funeral yet, but that if you do, the issues you thought about in 2009 were helpful. I hope you're still doing your best to be an encourager and peacemaker and take care of the people in your family.
Not such an easy meme, really. I'm tagging these people to write their own letters:
but if you're not listed, please feel free to try your hand and let me know what your letters are like.
